“I’ve never wanted to hurt her or be on bad terms with anyone ive never been on bad terms with an ex & i don’t plan to start; I’ve always genuinely cared about her family no matter what grounds me & her were on. As far as me & her go, I’ve never wanted to hurt her but I know we’re not a match for each other.. We tried to be friends but it was always her saying it was too hard. When I went on that trip I realized how much better things would’ve been if we were only friends cause we got along great like that but as far as falling in love I didn’t feel like that but I do genuinely care for her and the family despite the arguements & disagreements. She asked me NOT to date anyone here but I can’t help who I like, love, or fall in love with .. never did it out of spite for her & I had hoped she’d be okay with it cause I would be happy for her if it was the other way around; anyways just wanted to get that off my chest.” - A letter from the EX girlfriend to my sister in law - Nov 10 2011

FIRST of all, I don’t understand WHERE you got the idea that we got along better as friends when we NEVER had a friendship. The trip was AWKWARD for me you had not idea of course because I played it off like everything was just peachy, How would YOU feel if the “tables were turned” & I had just got to your house & right before you come home from work I text you telling you I started to like another girl (who you knew) after you ASKED me to PLEASE not talk to anyone else that lived in YOUR city where YOU live & the NEXT MORNING we went to six flags? Especially when your intentions were to show me that we could get along & we can START OVER & you still loved me with all your heart !! Of course you wouldn’t think of that because you’re a fucking selfish BITCH - You’ve NEVER once thought about me or my feelings. You never intended to hurt me but sorry MISSION FAILED because you did JUST THAT. I have to see your sorry ass around this town now & hear about everything you & your new girlfriend do. I have to hear about MY CHILDHOOD FRIENDS running into you at random places or MY COUSIN smoking a blunt in YOUR house & didn’t even know you lived here. I’m not even in love with you anymore, I’m still just hurt on how selfish someone could be. I realize how much YOU ARE NOT WORTH IT, & you’re absolutely RIGHT we are NOT a match for each other because if we were I’m sure you wouldn’t have given up on me within the first WEEK of our fucking breakup. It took me almost 10 months to FINALLY talk to someone but you NEEDED a girl around in the first WEEK, you’re pathetic but you know what … I am happy for you. I’m happy that you’re happy with this new girl & I hope she gives you everything I couldn’t. I hope she treats you how you deserve to be treated & not like I did. I also hope that you realize one day how much I loved you & how much effort & time I put into you .. One day you’ll see all I did & I just know you can never say I didn’t love you but now none of that matters so goodluck & I’ll see you around.